my wifes the same takes ages to come,I make sure she comes at least twice with her vibrator before having sex.I have got her off before with fingers and tongue but must have taken a hour,I am lucky really because I can have a orgasm without coming,then start again.

 

the chicken...no wait, the egg...damn philisophical questions!..although I would have thought finding out which came first
The chicken or the egg would be easy....
Put them in a bed, leave them for 10 minutes (I,m being generous) walk back in. Whoever is lying back smoking a cigarette, came first.....but I digress....would like to say, should always (try) and make the woman cum first, unfortunately, doesn't always work out that way!
*shakes fist at women and their seductive ways*

 

:-E

 

i think the girl should always cum first, mostly because i love cuming multiple times. and he'll cum for sure, it's more difficult for a girl if the guy's no good. the girl's good all the time.

 

#1 I never said if you have ED that it will allow you to stay hard after cumming. If you actually have ED and aren't using it for performance enhancing purposes then sure you most likely would go limp afterwards. If you don't have ED its much more likely you won't go soft. I have done it before I cummed in this woman and blew my load and didn't even stop I just kept on trucking, until she was like did you just cum in me... I agree with your last statement if you don't have ED it works like that I was stating for people who don't actually have ED just to clarify.

#2 I never said viagra effected the amount of sperm or ejaculate a male has. Edging does though if you get extremely close to blowing your load and then stop your body produces more seamen, more pressure builds up I've gotten very close multiple times and by the time I blew my load it shot extremely far.
There are drugs like clomid which allow a man to produce more seamen as well. Testosterone will actually have a man have produce smaller loads.

#3 No need to be judgmental and assume that's my view, I never said they stay hard all day long or anything obviously not the case with that said they have to be able to perform on command. Getting a film done in the least amount of days possible is the most efficient with that said I don't doubt they take multiple days on many films. Fucking for maybe 2-6 hours in a day in order to get just the right shots isn't something all guys can do. If you can't get it up when the shot needs to be taken well that's wasted time and $$$ for everyone the crew etc... You don't want you main man going limp, these women also don't have the tightest pussys after they've been pounded for hours too so you do feel less despite having a big cock. Having a bigger dick then average is just assumed when it comes to porn, however just because you have a 2-3 inch bigger then normal cock doesn't mean you have what it takes to be a porn star. You have to be able to PERFORM like a porn star not just have a porn star cock. You need the whole package if you're talking about the real top of the line porn films, an attractive face, a muscular body, a big cock, and great stamina...

 

The woman should cum first,second and third.:excited:
After that it is okay for the man to cum.
Just my opinion tho.

 

As terrible as it is, I think the woman should come first. Most men either don't have the stamina or the ability to satiate his woman after he comes. It's why my husband isn't allowed to masturbate without permission... it's not fair to me. I can keep having sex after I orgasm, he can't.

 

men should be the last one to come

 

It,s not a test of endurance....it's all about having fun...If the woman cums first, that is excellent..but sometimes...just sometimes, It's awesome to just cum before she does...wham bam thank you ma'am and all that.....

 

idk,but my goal i to get my gf to get all the pleasure before me

 

I don't think it is that much of a big deal. Hubby and I during foreplay try to make the other one cum first. Its a lot of fun, trying to hold out because you want the other to cum before you; makes things very exciting. Sometimes I win, sometimes he does; either way - we both win :excited:
I'm lucky thou, he can normally, unless really tired, cum twice. So after a say 5 - 10 min break of me sucking his dick he normally gets hard again. ^_^

 

this mean i can tell my joke?

Man moves to a new apartment.
On his first day he walks out his door at the ecact same time as the girl, who lives across from him, does.
She is a stunner..blonde hair, big boobs and only wearing a terry bathrobe.
The guy introduces himself and they talk in the hallway for awhile.
He can't help but perving down her top, which slips open a little, showing him more and more cleavage.
There is a noise down the hallway. The girl places her hand on his arm and says..."someone is coming, lets go into my flat and chat there.
The minute they get into the flat, the girl opens her robe....
"well? what do you think is my best feature?"
He thinks for a moment then says.."your ears"
"My ears? why you say that?"
The guy blushes and says
"when we were out in the hallway and said you heard somebody coming...it was me"

 

She should. You can cum as many times as you want and keep going. Me, when I cum, it will probably stay semi-hard, maybe even fully hard for a bit, but eventually it's going to go soft.

I'd rather not waste a perfectly good wood by not making her cum before I do.

 

This may be the best answer.

Guys saying that they just keep going, stay hard as a rock all the time and can cum over and over again is POSSIBLE, but for maybe 1 in 397,562. At least 95% of guys are going to go soft after cumming the first time and will need at least SOME period of 'recovery'.

The only fair and logical thing to do is to make sure your girl cums AT LEAST once first------even if you CAN stay hard for 48 hours straight and cum 100 times a day yourself.

 

I am here to serve my man he decides to cum when, where and how.

 

i love to make my girl cum atleast twice before i cum...thats a pleasure for me when they say they cummed a lot..that makes me more horny nd keep me going harder before i burst my nuts...simply love it when they asks for more and covers my cock with their cum and make it slippery to go on with full speed...wow that feels awesome

 

well thats possible for any guy if he cud hold back after cumming few drops or maybe a shot or so...and keep the remaining waiting for their turn till then he can keep his hard and keep fucking..but thats good if done in a bj..so that no recovery time is required...

 

ur hubby is so damn lucky....

 

I usually don't last very long so if I can make her cum first, I love that, then it's my turn.

 

i try to make my wife cum atleast twice before i do