Just for the asking

A friend of mine has been hitting some hard times. She lost her job (due to drug abuse) and her apartment. She has two small boys 2&3 years old. She went to her ex-husband (who is single) has custody of her other three children that are teenagers. She approached her ex and Proposed to him that if she moved in to his house with her children. He could have sexual relations with her anytime and way he wants.

She and her kids moved into his house and the everything is working out she claims. They put forth a cover story that they were going to try and put the marriage back together. The kids go to school and he works from home.

She told me that his requests were fairly normal. He does requests that when they are home she be naked and she loves this. And having bj’s during breakfast and in the car are all ways to be expected. He drove her out to a public park and they got undressed and fucked in the woods. He requested for her to ask her friend to come over for a three some. Which she never had before, but she enjoyed ! He had his brother over and they spit roasted her and then they she got it in the asshole and pussy. She enjoyed this experience also.

My question to this group. Do you think this is a good situation for her and should she get out. Or continue to take advantage of this situation.

 

If she likes it then why not?

 

That’s my thoughts she’s getting sober and taking care of her children

 

Will she cum stay with me?

 

I just found out about this and she disappeared from my life after her divorce and drug use

 

If they're both ok with it and neither one is abusive... Then who cares. The only think I think might be wrong is telling the kids you're trying to get back together. Might be giving them false hope when all you're getting is some sex.

 

That’s true the kids would be disappointed and when she gets sober then what

 

It sounds very dangerous for him.

 

The story is nonsense, and so is the question. Who is taking advantage of whom, in this made up story?

 

Sounds like abunch of welfare recipients

 

If it feels right it is if doesn't it isn't. No one but the ones living it know

 

Stop being ridiculous this is abuse
Not sexy
Not cool
Not hot

 

If she is enjoying the situation and he treats her decently good, I don't see anything wrong with it. But on the other hand, it sounds like it could quite easily get out of hand and put her in situations that she would be hard pressed to say no to.

 

This sounds like a good time but won't last. It has been over a year since you posted this. Are they still enjoying the sex?

 

If she has no better alternative AND she is doing this willingly and without coercion, then I feel she's fine. Not ideal but the previous alternative was not good at all. That said, even if she enjoys the sex, if she is feeling coerced in any way then she should get out. I too know women who are in situations that they know are not ideal but hang in there because they don't see a better situation or don't work at finding one. Right now a friend is dealing with a terrible boyfriend who dated her for the sex (she loves sex) but now finds him physically abusive. She had moved in and doesn't think she has somewhere to move out too. She works a LOT of hours so that she doesn't have to be home with him. Circumstances can change and she needs to be careful. Nothing wrong with the sex though.